Expressive

"I am impressed with the way you do the housework".
"I appreciate that you don't mind to touch this chain", referring to chain with a cross, symbolize Christianity.
"I am impressed on how you encourage me about God".

His words of appreciations and acknowledgement, for me, are powerful. His words make my day. At the same time, he also easily throw his complaints in very smart way. (In fact, he loves to reply, "I am not complaining". Yup, it is a suggestion for improvement.)

"Thank you. Hurm, you can clean better after this"
"Next time, don't smell your food like that. It is not good. Do like this..."

He is not hypocrite to only choose the good things to be told. He is honest. He is an expressive person. And, what make him as a higher level expressive person is, he also can make me be expressive too.

Some stories, some frustrations or angers and opinions that I decided to be kept to myself can be easily 'heard' by him. Even from 3 seconds of facial expression change, he can detect my sadness or dissatisfaction. And he directly guessing and, BINGO, he understand the feeling. That make him can say that I love to cry when most of my close friends and family say I do not. I never have someone that is very understanding as I wished, until I know him. That make him different.

His transparency make me willing to write about him here. Express what I think or feel about him or anything related to him.


~Written by an expressive me~